The asshole fails to recognize you to your face… The asshole is especially outrageous, because, whatever his private motives, he can’t even be polite. And when he is polite, or even charming, fundamental respect is not the reason why. Other motives are in play.
Aaron James – Assholes: A Theory
That’s right. So don’t hate the player, hate the game!
No, I don’t think that’s what the quote reflects. The players really are to blame for ignoring the rules. We can see that everywhere. A more thorough context can be obtained via http://lorenrosson.blogspot.de/2012/12/what-makes-asshole-two-theories.html