You can choose how to react in any particular situation. So the difference between stress and pressure is purely down to the perception of the event. Therefore we can define stress as a situation in which a person: perceives that the demands made upon them exceed their ability to cope.
James Borg – Mind Control
The theory that events in our life are not the cause of our upset, but our reactions — based on our beliefs — is the cornerstone of the powerful model that Dr Ellis formulated. It was […] an insightful and forgiving approach to human emotional life […]. On the basis that all of us have a shared vision in life, namely to be happy, it’s a shame that fortune doesn’t always agree with us. Our wants, needs and goals are constantly being blocked. […] All human beings are different of course, but there are three major and universal irrational beliefs — with different manifestations — that upset everybody and that Ellis called ‘The Three Basic Musts’. These relate to:
Welcome, this is a service announcement. It has come to my attention that there already is a libpeak library, but it hasn’t been active for years, so I don’t mind. Does anyone advise against that? Anyway, since I’m working on releasing fresh DPI code, there is still some code glue missing to invoke it properly. I’ve taken the time to implement simple flow tracking based on red-black trees. I know the implementation doesn’t hold up against the speed of hash tables (and has absolutely no optimisations), but the thing is that hash tables are not really optimal in all other aspects. Let’s get into the science for the sake of it!
Schon den ganzen Tag ist draußen schönes Wetter. Trotzdem schaffe ich es nicht mich aufzuraffen. Mittlerweile ist ein Mittagsschlaf hinter mir und der Nachmittag nimmt seinen Lauf. Jetzt oder nie! Nach einem kleinen Botengang beschließe ich also durch den Park zu spazieren. Soviel zur Planung.
Ein schöner Morgen für ein wenig Text. Man sagt ja öfter, dass man sich nicht über die Vergangenheit definieren soll, aber irgendwann muss man den ganzen Mist ja auch mal aufarbeiten. Wenn man dann wirklich die richtigen Fragen stellen kann und die ehrlichen Antworten parat hat — und vor allem nicht scheut diese Auszusprechen — passieren die fantastischsten Dinge. Oder auch nicht. Aber das ist auch mehr als okay! Vorwärts kommt man damit auf jeden Fall. So langsam macht sich die neue Wohnung, auch wenn immer was zu tun ist. Packetwerk wächst und gedeiht. Zur Unterhaltung läuft Doctor Who, und ein wenig neue Songs gibt es auch — Kingdoms könnte ein Ohrwurm werden… Oh, und der Klassiker Never The Same hat eine Live-Aufnahme spendiert bekommen. In diesem Sinne einen guten Start in den kommenden Sommer. Man sieht sich bestimmt. :)
Picking up an intention cue quite often saves a relationship because some people, out of politeness, don’t want to verbalise what their intentions are. They rely on the body language reading skills of the other person — that means you. If they have to keep making repeated intention movements, it can irritate. Often it’s the last thing they remember about the interaction and so it can cause negative feelings.
James Borg – Body Language
Okay, this is going to be sort of demanding. Secure Socket Layer (SSL) and now rather Transport Layer Security (TLS) are at the heart of our current encrypted communication via the Internet. Let’s not get too much into the history here, but consider this: SSL was developed by Netscape in the nineties and version 3.0 was used as the base for the open standard TLS 1.0 via RFC 2246 in 1999. On the wire, the protocol presents itself on top of TCP. (A variation is DTLS, which is used on top of UDP.) The unencrypted header structures are well-defined and thus perfect candidates for DPI, especially for Lightweight Inspection (LI). I’m going to refrain from putting “packet” into the term, because LI may work on top of streams as well, as it is not aware of packets. That makes things easy by unwinding the protocol stack and avoiding packet parsing/manipulation inside the engine itself.